Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2020 7:29:49 GMT -5
Something I said to 6 a long time ago. Never make an announcement I am leaving and never coming back. Even when banned, people return, whether it is under a new name or just to return. Rage posting the anger... I have seen people there post private message in the forum. This was always a no no for me. Spoke more about the person sharing it of members words in public than that of the one who said something privately, it was simply cruel when It was not related to the owners actions. Yeah, I shoot the messengers of such things. Don’t care if someone said something bad about me. I don’t care if someone believed something that turned out to not be true. They thought it was ... taking things out of context and taking one thing from an entire conversation. Misleading everyone, not cool. I kept my opinions in the open. Talked with people outside of hip who I wanted to. Hip was not the topic of conversation.
As for Candy... who cares about Candy? I doubt any of you did. She is an excuse for many simply because they were not the most specially treated pet anymore. Her posts were mundane and boring. Ignore. She may have reported, probably did, but I am sure not everyone here can’t say they didn’t take advantage of their status on the site, who they knew and reported. knowing that some of you here could get away with more than others, because of who you were close with in mod positions or your longevity there. Writers panic could push more than others. Rolling too. Pushed bounds, got banned, he didn’t blame others, Or at least I don’t think he did. People who were report happy got people banned eventually. Often times doing the same shiit they were reporting. fark that. I pushed the bounds, skirted the line. The line was my own line. Never should have been banned, I didn’t cry, whine or report. Long time members brought it about, You weren’t banned because of candy, you were banned for setting standards then finally liked or not, the double standard came back to haunt you. grudge no! Just the way it goes online. Old time members knew it was going to happen. I knew it would happen too. Not because I was out of line, simply because I had a mind of my own. Not a collective thought. All I thought was how lame Some of these people are. Move on. Same kind of thing happens on every site. Hip forums is no different from any community about the same size online. Long time members think they have more leverage,, use it to their advantage. It is a game played. An obvious one,
So I like that I can say what I want here and not be slapped on the wrist. If I am slapped on the wrist, so be it. I have frequented a lot of places that were like that. Free speech... Stood on my own, respected for it or hated for it. It at times became a sport, let’s try to get to her. Come on, let’s go in swarm, have my back ok...together we can do it, I need your help. It was obvious groups messaged privately and would swarm. Gave as good if not better than I got, It was lame imo. Stood on my own. Didn’t work, turned off the computer... didn’t care what was said or what happened, Just be prepared to back up your own statements.
But regardless of all that I know this will be a calm and healing place for some of you. It will be calm, but we all know calm gets boring too. Just look at the riots. Bored, sitting at home, adversity needed. They were organized, they mobilized. There will be times where it will get heated eventually. No crying about it. Buck up. If you can’t dance with the dragons don’t try to. If you want to try go ahead. If you need back up, don’t bother trying. I take little things personal online, even banning. Friend or foe, I will go toe to toe and leave it in the ring, that thread. Many of you don’t.
As for Candy... who cares about Candy? I doubt any of you did. She is an excuse for many simply because they were not the most specially treated pet anymore. Her posts were mundane and boring. Ignore. She may have reported, probably did, but I am sure not everyone here can’t say they didn’t take advantage of their status on the site, who they knew and reported. knowing that some of you here could get away with more than others, because of who you were close with in mod positions or your longevity there. Writers panic could push more than others. Rolling too. Pushed bounds, got banned, he didn’t blame others, Or at least I don’t think he did. People who were report happy got people banned eventually. Often times doing the same shiit they were reporting. fark that. I pushed the bounds, skirted the line. The line was my own line. Never should have been banned, I didn’t cry, whine or report. Long time members brought it about, You weren’t banned because of candy, you were banned for setting standards then finally liked or not, the double standard came back to haunt you. grudge no! Just the way it goes online. Old time members knew it was going to happen. I knew it would happen too. Not because I was out of line, simply because I had a mind of my own. Not a collective thought. All I thought was how lame Some of these people are. Move on. Same kind of thing happens on every site. Hip forums is no different from any community about the same size online. Long time members think they have more leverage,, use it to their advantage. It is a game played. An obvious one,
So I like that I can say what I want here and not be slapped on the wrist. If I am slapped on the wrist, so be it. I have frequented a lot of places that were like that. Free speech... Stood on my own, respected for it or hated for it. It at times became a sport, let’s try to get to her. Come on, let’s go in swarm, have my back ok...together we can do it, I need your help. It was obvious groups messaged privately and would swarm. Gave as good if not better than I got, It was lame imo. Stood on my own. Didn’t work, turned off the computer... didn’t care what was said or what happened, Just be prepared to back up your own statements.
But regardless of all that I know this will be a calm and healing place for some of you. It will be calm, but we all know calm gets boring too. Just look at the riots. Bored, sitting at home, adversity needed. They were organized, they mobilized. There will be times where it will get heated eventually. No crying about it. Buck up. If you can’t dance with the dragons don’t try to. If you want to try go ahead. If you need back up, don’t bother trying. I take little things personal online, even banning. Friend or foe, I will go toe to toe and leave it in the ring, that thread. Many of you don’t.
. I know I was reported, I also know who did. As I have said before, nothing is private, everything is public. Doesn’t matter who did, didn’t care who did. There were always crews on hip. They worked together. They played the good guy group. The popular crowd. Candy is the one many seem to focus on. She too will be hit for doing what she reports others for, Just give it time. She will be banned. I never reported either.
