everything bagel
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Post by everything bagel on Jun 10, 2020 8:42:49 GMT -5
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Post by Writer's Panic on Jun 10, 2020 8:45:37 GMT -5
Don't worry, it's just personal! We got tossed like rubbish by a group of power-crazed assholes. We know what we don't like, so...........................
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everything bagel
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Posts: 124
Favorite Food: Bagels, duh
Favorite Music: Electronic, rap, Jpop/Jrock
Shit you hate: People following me from board to board just to antagonize me
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Post by everything bagel on Jun 10, 2020 8:47:24 GMT -5
Don't worry, it's just personal! We got tossed like rubbish by a group of power-crazed assholes. We know what we don't like, so........................... it still pisses me off. I wish it didn't but it does. Messaged zen twice to asking to explain in his own words why he banned me, no response. Not even "go to hell"
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everything bagel
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Posts: 124
Favorite Food: Bagels, duh
Favorite Music: Electronic, rap, Jpop/Jrock
Shit you hate: People following me from board to board just to antagonize me
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Post by everything bagel on Jun 10, 2020 10:09:48 GMT -5
You take offence to that thread? Kind of offensive that you find that thread is a problem. You think people posting pictures in that thread should be banned? Of toilets Being cleaned? If so the problem is lost on you. i didn't say anything about being offended or that anyone should be banned.
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everything bagel
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Posts: 124
Favorite Food: Bagels, duh
Favorite Music: Electronic, rap, Jpop/Jrock
Shit you hate: People following me from board to board just to antagonize me
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Post by everything bagel on Jun 10, 2020 10:18:09 GMT -5
Later Beach Ball
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meliai
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Post by meliai on Jun 10, 2020 10:22:13 GMT -5
Why are you always such a ridiculous coont, Beachball?
Genuinely curious. Never was able to ask on hipforums lol so now is my chance!
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Post by Writer's Panic on Jun 10, 2020 10:46:55 GMT -5
We all know we need to. But most of us still want to know wtf happened. We'll know soon enough. How long can an echo chamber hold on to members? We shall see.
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Post by Writer's Panic on Jun 10, 2020 10:48:16 GMT -5
i didn't say anything about being offended or that anyone should be banned. You are talking about the Double standards on there ! I get it , But you are in a better place now so let it go (as the princess said to the crab ) We already have a free therapy forum, and this isn't it! And wtf is up with guest posting? Are we trying to bait certain assholes? (Oh God I hope so)
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Post by meliai on Jun 10, 2020 10:54:38 GMT -5
Nope, I stated who I am. Nice try though. Always was, always will be. Morph Girl. coont doesn’t bother me, try calling me a Balbubu I hope you are not trying to rescue the princess. She will always be weak if you do. Both MorphGirl and BeachBall have a very, um..distinct writing style. I've always known you were the same person. Plus, you tried to start drama with bagel on reddit in the same fashion so it's pretty obvious who you are.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2020 10:55:20 GMT -5
Yes you will see. As they drop they will find their way here. The other place will attract more who gravitate to that way of thinking. It will simply be change. They too will move forward, in whatever direction. Not look back.
You know what you want here in this place. Just simply the members banned have to respect this place and the goal. It doesn’t mean everything must be peaches and cream all the time, perhaps people on here can try and keep the welcome thread clear on moaning. There is a reason this is at the bottom of the forum. You bring it to the top In welcome, responses come in kind.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2020 10:56:54 GMT -5
Nope, I stated who I am. Nice try though. Always was, always will be. Morph Girl. coont doesn’t bother me, try calling me a Balbubu I hope you are not trying to rescue the princess. She will always be weak if you do. Both MorphGirl and BeachBall have a very, um..distinct writing style. I've always known you were the same person. Plus, you tried to start drama with bagel on reddit in the same fashion so it's pretty obvious who you are. If you say so. How many have you accused of being morph girl? I laughed watching you do it. WaS really funny.
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Post by Writer's Panic on Jun 10, 2020 11:03:09 GMT -5
Yes you will see. As they drop they will find their way here. The other place will attract more who gravitate to that way of thinking. It will simply be change. They too will move forward, in whatever direction. Not look back. You know what you want here in this place. Just simply the members banned have to respect this place and the goal. It doesn’t mean everything must be peaches and cream all the time, perhaps people on here can try and keep the welcome thread clear on moaning. There is a reason this is at the bottom of the forum. You bring it to the top In welcome, responses come in kind. The lot of us are a study in shell shock. Coming here is relaxing at first, but eventually we'll start taking petty shiit out on each other since we can't get our hands around the throats we really want to reach. It's a balance thing!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2020 11:09:38 GMT -5
Yes you will see. As they drop they will find their way here. The other place will attract more who gravitate to that way of thinking. It will simply be change. They too will move forward, in whatever direction. Not look back. You know what you want here in this place. Just simply the members banned have to respect this place and the goal. It doesn’t mean everything must be peaches and cream all the time, perhaps people on here can try and keep the welcome thread clear on moaning. There is a reason this is at the bottom of the forum. You bring it to the top In welcome, responses come in kind. The lot of us are a study in shell shock. Coming here is relaxing at first, but eventually we'll start taking petty shiit out on each other since we can't get our hands around the throats we really want to reach. It's a balance thing! Yes I understand that, it is a balance thing, might want to think about how you want the ones who feel hard done by to respect the place and kind of stick to it. Welcome are is for welcoming, bitching area for bitching, the rest in between is conversations that can go off topic, ebb and flow, get heated, change from the OP, etc... as new people come in, away from this group, personally I would like to be able to direct people here without them being jumped on from the start. I could direct people to this place who are not and never been a part of hip. Not troll, but I really don’t know how they would be received. So I don’t, yet.
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Post by Writer's Panic on Jun 10, 2020 11:13:22 GMT -5
The lot of us are a study in shell shock. Coming here is relaxing at first, but eventually we'll start taking petty shiit out on each other since we can't get our hands around the throats we really want to reach. It's a balance thing! Yes I understand that, it is a balance thing, might want to think about how you want the ones who feel hard done by to respect the place and kind of stick to it. Welcome are is for welcoming, bitching area for bitching, the rest in between is conversations that can go off topic, ebb and flow, get heated, change from the OP, etc... as new people come in, away from this group, personally I would like to be able to direct people here without them being jumped on from the start. I could direct people to this place who are not and never been a part of hip. Not troll, but I really don’t know how they would be received. So I don’t, yet. Ultimately we're dealing with adults. We have to let them do what they will do. When they cross lines that the community doesn't like, we'll start a process for dealing with it. We have a couple in mind already.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2020 12:29:17 GMT -5
I also see this in many ways as small, petty even. In the grand scheme of things people were told, no it is not acceptable by our standards. Fine , who really cares? People in general could let things go. We all remember, but do we let it consume our every moment? Is this all it is? A place where we dwell on the past or move forward to a brighter future in a community.
There is so much going on it the world, however big or small your world might be. Rejection is a part of life. Get over it. shiit happens, but to me, being banned on a forum is really small.
You are making a place where those bans won’t be necessary, but there may come a time where they are.
You are starting something good here for all concerned, I am not going to police the place, nor do I care what people post. What they Think. They own their own statements. Simply, reactions are normal, vibes rub off, no matter how small. Negative Nancy gets negative reactions. Then I am negative, or maybe just blunt? I let it all go quickly. Like a ping pong ball. No grudge, no hard feelings. It is just small, in the grand scheme of things.
I posted my rant here and was done with it. No hard feelings at all. Perhaps people Didn’t like like what they read. Fine, not my problem. Take it or leave it, so many other things that truly matter to me. Being rejected on a forum is not even on my radar.
Friendships and bonds matter to us all. This place is for maintaining that, I believe. Great.
Hopefully the hurt at being banned can be put out of mind and people can move forward. Get thicker skin. Let things go. Hip is no longer what you want it to be, Maybe it never was? Make this place what you want, hope for in your world.
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Post by Writer's Panic on Jun 10, 2020 12:59:09 GMT -5
I also see this in many ways as small, petty even. In the grand scheme of things people were told, no it is not acceptable by our standards. Fine , who really cares? People in general could let things go. We all remember, but do we let it consume our every moment? Is this all it is? A place where we dwell on the past or move forward to a brighter future in a community. There is so much going on it the world, however big or small your world might be. Rejection is a part of life. Get over it. shiit happens, but to me, being banned on a forum is really small. You are making a place where those bans won’t be necessary, but there may come a time where they are. You are starting something good here for all concerned, I am not going to police the place, nor do I care what people post. What they Think. They own their own statements. Simply, reactions are normal, vibes rub off, no matter how small. Negative Nancy gets negative reactions. Then I am negative, or maybe just blunt? I let it all go quickly. Like a ping pong ball. No grudge, no hard feelings. It is just small, in the grand scheme of things. I posted my rant here and was done with it. No hard feelings at all. Perhaps people Didn’t like like what they read. Fine, not my problem. Take it or leave it, so many other things that truly matter to me. Being rejected on a forum is not even on my radar. Friendships and bonds matter to us all. This place is for maintaining that, I believe. Great. Hopefully the hurt at being banned can be put out of mind and people can move forward. Get thicker skin. Let things go. Hip is no longer what you want it to be, Maybe it never was? Make this place what you want, hope for in your world. If it was only so simple. The issue isn't with being banned, it's with being bullied out up to the point they were banned. A lot of these folks went through some real conflict and the people in control milked it like typical psychopaths. They routinely poured fuel onto the fire and coordinated with several new (and substantially active) members to turn the place into a sewer for people who have been there for years. It's the deliberate way this was brought about that is sinking in. Like most coordinated con games, the victim doesn't realize they were conned until they're alone on the sidewalk with an empty wallet.
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Post by Writer's Panic on Aug 15, 2024 9:44:08 GMT -5
Memories, light the corner of my mind.....
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